Spring, when cherry blossoms bloom, is the season for new encounters.
The cherry blossoms have already bloomed, but new encounters are being made here and there during this time of year.

And I'm sure everyone has felt the excitement of meeting someone for the first time.

This tension can be stressful, and some people may feel intimidated when meeting someone for the first time.

Meeting people is unavoidable at work, school, etc.
Therefore, I think there are probably a lot of people who don't like this time of year because of the tension.

And while the cherry blossoms are in bloom this spring, the last aurora season is upon us in countries far from Japan, such as Alaska, Canada, and Northern Europe.

Like cherry blossoms, there is a best time to see the aurora, which is from August to April.

The aurora can be seen in red, green, purple, and pink.

The aurora is a fantastical and moving sight, and I hear that people who have actually seen it feel soothed by the gradation of colors that covers the entire sky.

The first time we met, I felt a soothing aura.

The word Aurora is derived from Aurora, the goddess of dawn in Greek mythology.
The word "aura" that we often hear comes from the Latin word "aura."

An "aura" is said to be the energy emitted from a living organism, and in humans, it is the atmosphere that a person exudes.
This aura can have a big impact on your impression, especially when meeting someone for the first time.

American psychologist Albert Mehrabian suggests that 55% of a person's first impression is based on visual influence, so people who give off a good aura when you first meet them may be those who exude a sense of comfort and security, or a soothing atmosphere, rather than a sense of tension.

It is said that people who have seen the aurora have it recorded in their brains as an unforgettable, wonderful memory.

We would be happy if our loved ones could remember our encounters in the same way.

How to leave an unforgettable first impression: the "Archaic Smile"

Want to create a first impression that's a little like the Aurora Borealis? It's easy.

An archaic smile is an expression reminiscent of ancient Greek statues and Maitreya Buddha statues, with the corners of the mouth slightly turned up and the lips lightly pressed together.
Her expression is reserved, her gaze distant, and her mouth seems to subtly speak; her bright, elegant, mysterious, and soft smile gives the other person a sense of relaxation and has a healing effect like an aurora.

"What kind of women do you feel jealous of?"

In the seminars I regularly teach, I ask women, "What kind of women make you jealous?"

1. A woman younger than me
2. Intelligent woman
3. A woman with a homely, soothing atmosphere

Of these, the type that most women feel jealous of is type 3, a homely, soothing woman.

Jealousy arises from a complex that arises when you sense in the other person something that you lack within yourself.

Therefore, I think many women would like to be able to express an aura of healing.
This may help you find a partner or become more attractive as an adult woman.
Healing that relaxes the other person.

Try calmly and silently raising the corners of your mouth and changing your facial expression to look as if you are looking into the distance.
When your facial expression changes, the other person's heart rate and breathing also change.
You don't need to say a word.
When you speak, the other person may feel nervous and think, "I have to respond."
Have you ever felt tired of being with a woman who is chatty and talks nonstop?
In particular, women who speak harshly may appear to be reliable but make their partners nervous, which may be a disadvantage.

The most effective way to relieve tension is to relax

When you are relaxed, your mind becomes calm.
If you can make them feel at ease when you meet them, they will want to see you again.
This is how you can give someone a sense of security when you meet them for the first time. Try a relaxed archaic smile, with the corners of your mouth slightly turned up.
The aura of an encounter where the other person feels at ease could change your life.

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